Friday, May 25, 2007 2:45 AM

Waiting is painful. Forgetting is painful. But not knowing which to do is the worst kind of suffering. I got this from one of my friends’ blog. He quoted this from one of his best reads. I find it really substantial that’s why I thought of including this in my post for this day.



Those lines say it all. I know most of us had somehow gone through such dilemma already. Haha. It is part of everyone’s life. Loving is as inevitable as breathing. You just can’t do away with it. You’re lucky if things would fall the way you wanted them to but what if it strikes you otherwise? Have you thought of the catastrophes that could actually befall?



I don’t know if you may have noticed this fact but you really don’t have to be so clever to come up with such theories. All you have to do is just look around and be vigilant. In this life, even the most intelligent person gets dumbfounded with love. It’s undeniable! People may say nakakabobo talaga ang pagmamahal. Well, I think they might have felt such coz they’re allowing themselves “to love” in the wrong manner.



You’ll never win if you’ll put your head first most of the time for love is not concerned about who will stand brighter than the other but who is strong enough to fight for whatever makes one happy. On the contrary, the use of your heart shall also be done with caution. It should work hand in hand with your mind to achieve the best of what you could actually get.



When a relationship comes to its end, the initial reaction would be to hope that it would still come back they way you had it before. When you were still with those pleasant and worth reminiscing times that you honestly know you’d never give up for anything else. This would then drive us to wait. Wait endlessly until that love finally reaches its way home. Nothing would get really harder than going through this for it’s like allowing yourself to get really vulnerable with so much heartache without having any assurance that the person you loved would undoubtedly choose to head his way back. You had yourself believing so hard that he’d get convinced to come back but what if he chooses to go with a different path?



Forgetting, on the other hand, won’t ever be that easy to do than just be said. But why still hope that something would ever come back if it clearly depicts that it won’t really turn out. Or else you’re just allowing yourself to get blinded from reality, making it harder for you to move on and just continue with your life. If that would be the case, then we could no longer turn to any other recourse but to leave and let go!



It’s not wrong to wait nor is it to forget. You just have to be geared with your wisest tactic. All you need is to know the right time for everything. Don’t ever play it safe for you’re just tolerating an even disastrous incident. Play it smart nevertheless don’t forget your heart. You have to know the right time to end and go on for a bright new start.